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Create for Yourself, Not Just Your Audience

I’ve heard folks in the “Creator” space say that you should create for yourself first, not for an audience. And that’s a really sound idea, because if you’re writing about what you love, you’ll likely find the people that resonate with it, too. This approach is much more genuine, which is essential in home business audience building.

From Creating Content to Creating Yourself

But when I look at that statement, I want to change it just a smidge. I’d add that you should not just create for  yourself first, but create yourself first. 

By “creating yourself first”, what I mean is start by defining your values, beliefs, and what you bring to the table. Making sure you’re clear on your vision and mission. On whom you’re trying to serve and why. This is foundational to effectively building an audience for your home business.

Authenticity Attracts the Right Audience

When you know yourself deeply, you can present a genuine, coherent identity to the world. This authenticity attracts people. It draws in the people who share your values or are inspired by your passion. And really, do you want to work with people who don’t share your values? That sounds like way too much effort to me. In the realm of home business audience building, authenticity is not just a buzzword—it's your most powerful tool. Imagine you're a sculptor. Before you can create a work that speaks to a viewer, you first need to understand your tools, materials, and the basics of your craft. For those of us in the home business and personal development world, understanding who you are, what you stand for, and where your passions lie is the first step before you start to carve out your audience. This is the cornerstone of home business audience building.

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Realizations and Revisions: My Story

And yeah, you probably won’t get it just right with the first, or maybe even the tenth iteration, but this isn’t just a tactic to employ but a work of self-realization. You’ll massage it over time. When I started building a social media following, I went charging headlong into posting and writing without first working on a brand identity. I started to get a bit of a following, but the folks I was adding weren’t engaging. I wasn’t speaking to the right people. They were attracted to a momentary buzz, not to me or my brand. And really, I sounded like every other person in the home business field.

The Missing Comma: A Shift in Focus

Then one day I realized that the people I really wanted to help with this stuff were middle-aged guys like me. Guys who’d played by the rules and worked hard and still didn’t have enough in the bank for retirement. Guys who were going to be working until the company retired them because they wouldn’t be able to afford leaving on their own.

Those men are more important to me than the stay-at-home boss moms. And there are LOTS of people wanting to help them, anyway. But it seems it isn’t fashionable to talk to men these days. That’s when the idea of the Missing Comma came to me. So that’s how I’ve tried to steer my content since. And now I have better engagement, a stronger audience and a business that I enjoy doing.

It Will Evolve

This idea of creating yourself first involves continuous learning and adapting. The process doesn’t stop once you start gaining followers; it evolves as you grow and learn more about yourself and the industry. This adaptability is key in connecting with your ideal audience, who will come to see you not just as a brand but as a journey they are a part of.

One more thing: focusing on self-creation fosters resilience. When challenges come up, as they inevitably do, knowing who you are and what you stand for gives you a stable foundation from which to navigate. Your audience will see this too. They will appreciate your clarity, which in turn will deepen their commitment to your message.

In essence, building yourself before your audience isn’t just about better branding; it’s about creating an authentic connection that goes beyond the usual transactional nature of business. It’s about becoming a person that attracts people who will stick around not just for what you sell but for what you represent.

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Steve Norris
Steve Norris

Looking for the comma that's missing from your retirement accounts? So was I. Together, let's fix that. We'll build cash flow through a side-business, use that money to invest and create wealth and build a legacy for our families.